Propriety

In his letter in Chapter 35, Darcy describes “that total want of propriety” shown by Mrs Bennet, the three younger sisters and sometimes Mr Bennet. He specifically exempts Jane and Elizabeth from this criticism. Most importantly, he admits concealing Jane’s presence in London from Bingley.

On Jane and Bingley, Darcy admits his interference. He believed Jane’s composed manner showed no particular affection for Bingley, although he allows that Elizabeth’s knowledge of her sister may prove him mistaken. He also objects to “that total want of propriety” displayed by Mrs. Bennet, the three younger sisters and occasionally Mr. Bennet (Chapter 35).

Readers can question that claimed impartiality. He also criticises the Bennet family’s behaviour, describing “that total want of propriety” in his letter in Chapter 35. The absolute “total” makes the criticism severe, although he explicitly exempts Jane and Elizabeth.

Nancy values propriety: socially respectable behaviour, shown through careful manners, modest dress and consideration for others. Eliot’s omniscient narrator can both defend her against social snobbery and expose her weaknesses. We are not restricted to Nancy’s opinion of herself or to other characters’ judgements.